This Season’s Gifts December 13, 2008
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Been a tough, fun, happy week! The joy provided by people I have the pleasure of calling friends and family was reason enough to perk me up this season of real jubilation and hope. Certain gifts, whether visible or invisible, concerete or abstract, are sure win.
- The three gifts I received from Ma’am Dulz the last two weeks: chocolate cookies wrapped in Christmas tree package; meaningful display ceramics bearing the tag “if men are from Mars…”; and the blueberry wine she gave me yesterday during the culmination of our kris kringle.
- The fun and the laughter from yesterday’s intimate Christmas party among people from my closest circles of friends at Letran. The foods and the stories warmed up that celebration of friendship and joy of staying where we found our real calling.
- The very useful key chain I got from Dean Au containing a handy, cute flashlight and a whistle which see me through my dark descent from the stairs of our office to my writing class every MWF night.
- Fruit package from Nursing Dean Conde. What was nice about the entire basket of fruits was the fact that the bunches of bananas and papaya were organically raised. It took some time before they got ripe, but, boy, the taste was so sweet and unadulterated–something you won’t get from commercially sold fruits.
- The gift of a reactivated wordpress site. Moreso now that blogging at Friendster gets real slow and unstable.
- The happiness of fixing one’s new office with the support of concerned folks.
- The awe of visiting a nearby plant nursery and seeing Christmas fully red and abloomed. What a joyful sight!

- The excitement to drop by 7-11 convenience store so I could buy Real Living mag, and the eventual high flipping through its pages.

I hope the list expands to other worthwhile presents as December marches on and the new year beckons. Always, cheers!
Numbers November 28, 2008
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When ruled by numbers and not by words, my life could be summed up this way.
- 1 week late from my daily readings.
- 2 trips to look forward to… Batangas this Dec and Baguio on Jan.
- 296 Friendster friends, 31 Facebook connections, 13 Multiply contacts.
- 3 days to enjoy the long weekend.
- 8 grad students to constantly monitor and evaluate.
- 1 grad class to attend every Friday morning. 2 weeks of lull to do a project.
- 29 writing students to meet and teach every MWF night.
- Less than a month before Christmas.
- Almost 3 weeks of Christmas break.
- 1 pending writing_class invite.
- 1 more book that awaits colloquium.
- 1 new book to write.
- 2 bags now on my side.
- Pile of folders closest to me now along with a yellow glass for drinking water, 1 bunch of note pad, 1 tired pencil, 1 fully charged N70.
- 2 indifferent [at times amusing] colloquium reactors.
- More wishes to fulfill.
- A number of people to wait… and text and ym and share this blog.
- 4 officemates to work with.
- 5 hours to sleep before we go off for a weekend malling trip.
- A plethora of things to buy… to think about… and remember.
- An indefinite attempt to forgive and forget.
- 15 minutes to wrap this up and put on ointments and sleep.
- A nightly admonition to sleep loose and say: don’t let your pesky bedbug sip!
Things that make me happy today October 24, 2008
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Let me write about plain, simple truths today. Things that make my heartbeat skip. Hehehe. Some happy notes today, guys. (Read this Paul! Wahehe. See my paradigm shift.
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- End of my “hell days.” Gosh, after two weeks of straight hardwork, things are finally over. I’m now enjoying real sem break! Yehey! I woke up late, ate my light breakfast, and now leisurely browsing the Net for more discoveries, hehehe.
- Facebook adventure! Through good friend Jay and Friendster friend Harold, I’m now exploring FaceBook, the next online sensation after Friendster and Multiply. Yes, it has “more character,” that I’ll “truly enjoy” that I’ll grow “addicted” to soon (or now!). Visit my FB site and add me as your friend. Do so, Pearl! Hehehe. Go!
- Connecting with old friends again. Though virtual, it’s nice to get in touch with old friends again–through YM, Friendster, or FaceBook! It makes our worlds closer, smaller, a real mouse-click away. More, more old friends coming back to life, please.
- Going back to the green world again. We’ve started attending to our front garden again since the beginning of the week. Dad started to clean up the plant pots, painted them brown, put up an improvised long wooden stand where our plants are now arranged like proud sentinels lining up for war (against environmental decay!). Nice site to greet one after a tiring day or after waking up from a good, complete sleep.

- Recovering from my skin allergy. Putting on the treatment each day made me slow down, relax, forget worries. Maybe that’s the purpose of it all. When I have the ointment on my right fingers, I tend to stop work and focus on things that really matter, forgetting adult cares or “matters of consequence.” Things are getting back to normal. Thank God! I’m stress-free now, too.
- More time with the family, again! Last Wednesday night, while reviewing for a final exam, I joined my nieces and nephews in their sem-ender spree (around fries, cheese sticks, pasta, and some drinks). Nice stress reliever! Last night, one of my brothers (working at Manila) came home with bunches of take-out pansit we quickly partook complete with all the fun, laughters, and talks. That certainly made the weekday ender a lot, lot wacky and different. Here’s to more family bonding ahead of us during the break!

Some Life’s Little Lessons October 11, 2008
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What a week! I have had a lot this week. Overwhelming things, inevitable changes. It’s nice going back to some events, and listing down across them some life’s little lessons.
- Quick talk with Father Rector Monday morning. It lasted for less than five minutes. Very casual and amiable. I didn’t expect his trust to me could only be expressed in a few words.
- Brief meeting with Dean Au. She trusted me enough too to let me go.
- Transition meeting with Ma’am Silon. It went on longer than expected. She informally endorsed to me some works I have to confront as she turns over her post to me come November. We couldn’t help but go back to works we’ve done together like my five-year stint as research moderator at R&DD and the one-year stay I’ve had at PCARRD where we were both project staff.
- Three-hour conversation with Ria, whom we are grooming for the languages and communication post I’ll be leaving behind. I couldn’t help but feel the cycle of life in the academe, this time, it’s my turn to mentor a new leader, giving tribute to those who have mentored me in the past.
- Pearl’s Chowking treat. Fresh from their Hong Kong trip, she made us try new Chowking branch at Letran. I enjoyed the halo-halo along with other friends and faculty colleagues plus the session we had to socialize our anxieties. Hahaha.
- My communication theory students’ group communication projects. Despite their limitations, they were able to explore various sites of communication process. Samples: the communication process in Calamba City prison cells, among Rizalistas and fraternity members; a communication research on media consumption (TV in particular) among Letran students; not to mention those who have tried to capture the communication process in the classroom. Kudos to my AB Comm students!
- My graduate class this morning. This is my second trimester to handle Org Comm among students old enough to surpass me in the area of professional experience. But that’s the challenge. With lesser students this time (7), comprised among others of my former boss in the R&DD and one NFA finance officer from Nueva Ecija, I couldn’t avoid being overwhelmed again. The change in my audience, from undergrads to professionals, makes me see the transition of my role. Maybe this is what Paolo Freire means by pedagogy (or adult learning). Because I see myself teaching my graduate students the technology of contemporary communication, starting with how to gain access to an electronic group (and I have to teach the process step-by-step, hehehe).
- Finding the time to read Butch Dalisay, Randy David, and Barbara Gonzalez again–on-line–after months of hiatus. They are my writing icons. As you can see, they’re part of the list that says “who I want to meet” (Friendster Profile).
- Bon’s birthday. He’s one of my early inaanaks, so I couldn’t miss it. I’ll end this list with a picture of how a typical family salu-salo happens in our kin. Probably festive is the word. For a family known to love “mountainous” foods (that’s how our US-based cousin Euge would call the phenomenon, hehehe), no wonder this latest one was replete with our traditional delicacies again capped with laughters, endless kuwentuhan, and fun. Thank God for the gift of family!
Lest I forget September 26, 2008
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This is a way of reminding myself that there a lot of things (an understatement!) to do as the semester draws to a close. Here’s a miscellany:
- PDM (Project Development and Management) Class final tasks (critiques etc.) due 18 October
- CR 284 (Message Analysis) final paper (textual analysis of student CNFs <creative nonfiction texts>) due 09 October
- AERS 281 (Theory Construction) class report (02 October), book review and final exam (23 October)
- Editing works (for R&DD, Graduate School, and Sir Monb)
- Last hurrah for my undergrad classes (papers to check, grades to compute as far back as prelim, and a lot more I couldn’t remember this moment)
- Admin works (coming to terms with Post-Poetika: financial reports, evaluation, and more; AB Comm application for final level, among others)
- New book in the offing (“Smarter English”?)
Given this plethora (my laundry list!) of things to do, funny I can still do asides (or on-the-side breathers). I must. This is the only way I can make myself sane. I musn’t bury myself completely in work. I know. There’s a life outside this burning shell. Soon, changes will bring me there.
Things that make me sane August 9, 2008
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This is the time of the week when I need to reckon things that inspired me (that still do) in a time of unexpected events (accidents, sudden occurrences, witnessing tragedy in the street, among others). I love to share these beautiful things…
- the plainly addictive Lost (I’m now moving on to the 13th episode of its first season): I begin to fall for the characters of John Locke (his philosohpy that borders aligned along the mystical, paranormal, and esoteric simply makes me think about his words, thoughts, and stance on things), Sayid (his depth and enigma simply excite and make me look forward to his next "competent" step), and, of course, Jack Shepard (the charming doctor whose charisma and leadership see all other survivors through the dangers and mystery of the jungle); <see the application I added yesterday in my friendster profile that confirms my addiction to this popular TV series
>; - business, infotech, and lifestyle magazines (Real Living, Real Home Ideas, Country Living, Fast Company, Bloomberg Markets, Town and Country): they make me see dreamed-of places, gadgets, furniture; they transport me to ideal states, utopian designs, good life, and all;
- native baskets (after finding out the good news about Mom’s no-finding skull x-ray, I jumped out of joy buying these from a nearby native-craft shop: they are now repositories of my thingies and knick-knacks; and
- my and Owie’s (my nephew) pix (courtesy of my bro-in-law Chito) taken inside Kuya’s car during Lean’s first birthday: it’s now framed and displayed on my console table — it’s a happy moment (carefree, candid, stolen) captured from that rare moment I was with my family, right after ending the weekend tired attending to my grad classes <message analyze the shift in mood: from stress to relief>.




I’m off to another exciting and busy week, guys. I’m about to construct my grand (literally!) to-do list spread out in my sketch pad that will span Monday-to-Monday breadth. That will see me through hectic days at Letran and frenetic moments preparing for my first commres exam at Diliman mid of this coming week.
Good luck to me. Good luck to us all. All the best for us!
What-I’ve-Done List August 3, 2008
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I heard (maybe, read) a friend complaining about her to-do list. Maybe it’s not effective or it’s a waste of time. It’s better to do the work than to list it down. That could be a contention. Be that as it may, I’d like to propose something else, which I also read from a favorite author: it’s called "what-I’ve-done" list.
This past week, this is my what-I’ve-done list:
- Barangay Letran article (I was able to beat the deadline, guys!)
- Items for our department’s web updates
- Collegium meeting that led us to the next step
- Graduate classes that stimulated the cerebrum
- First half of research journal I’m editing done (despite other pressures)
- CASTLE’s general assembly which saw us sharing comm experiences
- Grad class that took their first exam seriously
- Parish newsletter workshop that brought us to the countryside
- Finishing, to my delight, the fourth and fifth episodes of Lost
- An art work I’ve done using the frame I got as a Christmas gift
May this listing be a weekly tradition. Help me, my creative, productive muse.
Gratitude Journal July 27, 2008
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This weekend, though extra tiring, made me see a host of beautiful things, inspiring people, wonderful moments. Here are a few of them:
- Happy grad class I handle every Saturday (they enjoy the freedom I give them: butting in during class reports to share org experiences and eating while the class is in progress);
- Kind, polite Jollibee crew member who served me without a tinge of dismay or impatience;
- The round mirror with native frame that surprised me when I entered my room last night (Dad was responsible for this);
- Anticipated mass said by my grad school classmate Fr. Alex and his moving homily;
- New arrangement we did for my thinking corner (we swapped tables);
- The real Ferdz Recio adding me as friend (hehehe!);
- Nice, long sleep this Sunday (to the point of leaving me aches in my head);
- Messages, surreal and unpredictable and unimagined;
- Food trip last night at Kuya Rolly’s birthday celeb;
- Cool Sunday: literally, it’s drizzling; more time to watch TV, rest, take a nap, eat, worry less, think of beautiful people and old memories, look forward to another week of work and study.
I can’t ask for more.
Courting Creativity July 19, 2008
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Saturday this semester is a hectic day for me. I’m hopping from one school to another, straddling lanes, reversing roles. I always lack sleep. I’m tired. I look forward to Sunday but dread the beginning of a new week when I need to row on again and repeat the cycle of stress and tension and uncertainty.
I’m getting predictable. I would wake up early practically the whole week. It’s a tiring routine. It’s an uncreative pursuit. I want to spend a day thinking nothing but things that could make me happy and different. When was the last time I did something new and novel? Let me check. This week, I could recall a few. Like…
- dropping by
Galleria Ethnikato buy cute bamboo poles that now adorn our antique pottery;
- watching the classic fairy tale
Cinderellaas a requirement for message analysis; - buying back issues of
foreign magazinesI didn’t know before; - impulsively getting myself DVD copies of
Lost and Grey’s Anatomyinfluenced by Pearl; - visiting
Pantojaagain after some weeks of lull; - giving in to the lure of taking a nap while killing the time at
UPLB Libthis lunchtime; - walking at
LB crossingthis hot, hot afternoon carrying my loads to catch a jeepney ride amid traffic and all that mess; and - still discovering old friends thru
friendsteras far back as those I knew from elementary days.
Last-minute Check June 10, 2008
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All systems go. Seemingly. Let me check. Here’s my laundry list.
UP Diliman Cross-enrollment.UPLB 6-unit Registration.Speech Lab and Speak Smart Orientation.Letran Grad School Teaching Load.Half of My New Thinking Corner.
Lest I forget, my to-do list:
- Editing of 1 PH.D. Dissertation
- Speech Lab Waiver and Guidelines
- E-mail to Dr. Suva
- SAS Web Updates
- Org Comm Outline
- Editing of a Journal Article
I still want to enjoy the weekend. Hope I’ll find the time. And the space, too, to sleep and savor the moments. Seize the day!








